I ventured outside my comfort zone once again, something I preach a lot for others to do, but like anyone else, I have to force myself to do it occasionally because the bedfellows of growth are frustration, struggle, and pain, among others. Those three nasty words are enough to get me to stay home any day of the week.
|A snowy 25 degree day greeted me in Chicago.|
The week before I left for Chicago was somewhat tumultuous, my father was abruptly admitted to the hospital in Missoula, Montana, and I was torn as to where I should be. I spoke with him on the phone a few times each day and he assured me that I was not needed in Missoula and that I should travel to Chicago as planned. I don’t particularly like to travel, so the prospect of a shorter sojourn to Montana to be with ailing family, not Illinois, to hang out with relative strangers, appealed to me greatly.
My first night in Chicago was spent in the hotel bar, then dinner and drinks in Beverly, meeting all of the participants in FSW Fundamentals, founder Chris Brennan – cerebral and calculating, and Fundamentals alum Gary Lane – passionate and fastidious. I had little idea of the journey I was about to undertake as my mind grew foggy from inebriants.
Day 1 of Fundamentals saw us arrive at CrossFit Beverly early – really early given the 2 hour time difference and the many beers I downed the evening prior – the 7am start time was as harsh as the wind that whipped through the streets of Chicago as the sun rose casting long, bluish shadows across the snow that blanketed just about everything. As we entered, a coffee pot muttered filling the box with a familiar and welcomed incense, signaling that it was time to go to work.
We filled our cups and were told to put our sweatshirts on because we were going to take a walk. We walked, the Californian wearing shorts, in 19 degree weather, to where FSW began in a city park (King Lockhart Park) named for 2 fallen Chicago firefighters. We were told the story of how 2 Chicago firemen came to meet their fate in an auto shop in 1998, and how FSW came to be. Snow crunched beneath our feet as we moved between one set of bronzed boots with a helmet perched atop, and then another. I stood in the cold and took it all in, the helmets, the boots, the names, the wilted flowers in vases as Chris, Chuck, and Gary left me with my thoughts. Anger and sadness swirled in my head as my fingers grew numb. I was standing at the very spot where these men had taken their last breath before succumbing to a force more powerful and unforgiving than any other environment on Earth. What were those last moments like for these men? Could I survive given the same set of circumstances? After a few minutes I began to shiver so I plodded back to the box.
|I found out the meaning of #wedontstop.|
I made my way back to the box and the day continued as both days would, with a workout. More workouts followed, 3 a day in fact, I am not a CrossFitter, I dabble in it, but during every workout the team encouraged me to dig down and find out what was inside of me. I learned how I learn, and I discovered the meaning of “#wedontstop” while running the second mile of “Murph” (a 1 mile run followed by 100 pull ups, 200 push ups, 300 squats, and then another 1 mile run), as Chris ran with me for the second mile to keep me moving and ensure I didn’t stop until I had completed the task. He explained as I trudged, heavy legged, through the snow, shirtless, in freezing temperatures, that it is more than a catch phrase, it is a mindset. He told me between breaths, “We don’t stop is about learning, training, and stepping outside of your comfort zone. It is about constantly challenging yourself.”
Day 1 ended with me gulping down my dinner at close to 8:00 pm, feeling exhausted but more alive than I had felt in years. I fell asleep early that night with a deep sense of accomplishment. I was told rather cryptically, that as difficult as day 1 was physically, it was nothing compared to what day 2 would be mentally.
I was welcomed into the group and made to feel a part of the team. I was encouraged to work through frustration, struggle, and pain.
As dawn broke to start day 2 of the journey, Chuck, Gary, and I shuffled from the hotel into another bitingly cold morning. The sun shone for the first time in 2 days and it held the promise of more adventure. Day 1 had been all about success. Day 2, I would find out, was all about learning to succeed through failure. At times during the second day, the sun seemed to fade as my frustration mounted.
Our second day began as before, coffee, a workout, and breakfast. I learned about servicing tools, forcible entry, ladders, SCBA and most of all, about failure. I failed, succeeded, failed, failed, failed, succeeded, and failed once more. I worked through frustration, anger, and claustrophobia (yes, we all get there eventually because the drive to breath is an emotion, if you say you never get claustrophobic you’re a liar). All the while it was made known that failure was a part of the learning process and that no one would leave until I had reached a level of learning that we as a group had decided on. I had traveled almost 2,000 miles, was surrounded by some of the best that the fire service has to offer, I fell flat on my face in training time and again, and it was okay. I had my internal struggles with the process, pride and ego circled me like demons and at times I wanted desperately to quit, if nothing else than to simply stop the bleeding. I grew quiet as I searched within for the resolve to continue though tired and frustrated. I couldn’t quit, my teammates wouldn’t allow it. A foxhole mentality had developed in just 2 days, I couldn’t let them down either.
|A foxhole mentality quickly developed.|
I was taken to the place in my mind where when flooded by a sea of emotions, we all feel we can find a way to swim – or at least tread water – where the majority of us will sink to the bottom and drown. I became clumsy, inattentive, and downright stupid at times. I was pulled – not pushed – along by my brothers who I had only just met. I went through a range of emotions, anger, fear, sadness, elation, and with the help of my new found brothers I was able to conquer them all. I drew energy and inspiration that I needed to keep going from them. All of this constituted a big risk on my part. In taking a risk I learned a little more about myself and a lot about teamwork. I learned once again, that bonds are almost instantly created when we struggle together to achieve a common goal.
I am not an elite warrior for having been annealed in the crucible of Fundamentals. I am however, better for having been taken on a journey of emotions, learning how to better control that which we do not fully understand. I am more functionally intelligent for having gone through the process. I learned that no matter how much we try to fight it, we are emotional beings – every one of us – who will do seemingly irrational things when subjected to extreme stress, because we lose our ability to think. If you think you won’t you’re wrong – dead wrong.
|Class 3: Lane, Olson, Brennan, vonAppen, Manning, Krasuski|
I’ll ride the wave of my career wherever it takes me. I am myself, I know who I am and I know that I only grow from stepping up and stepping out. I will continue to take risks in the form of challenging myself in training in order to reduce my risk in combat. I wanted to prove myself once again and sharpen the edge that becomes dull in all of us if we are not regularly challenged. I wanted to do something that not many others could say they had done or would even consider because it sounded too tough. I wanted to get comfortable being uncomfortable.
I was skeptical of what I would find when I arrived in Chicago. I expected to find an atmospere of competitive scorn that I associate with a group of uber-aggressive firefighter/CrossFit types. I was wrong. What I found was a community of humble firemen who are genuinely interested in leading and paying knowledge forward. I was welcomed into the group and made to feel a part of the team. The experience was a blood shot of challenge, community, and brotherhood that I desperately needed.
I will continue to push, in doing so I will struggle and I will grow. You can live if you take a risk, or you can languish in doubt. The choice is yours.
I’ll choose adventure and risk.